Relationships are built on agreements and when we break promises, relationships are strained. On the other hand, when we make agreements, relationships flourish. You create your life for the most part, by the agreements you make. It’s up to us which commitments we choose to keep and which ones we choose to avoid. This is why “promise” is a big word to me, it motivates me to actually take action to what I have plan on doing in life, rather than using words that doesn’t sound so convincing like, (I must, I should, I have to, etc.). Promising is where we bridge from possibility and planning to action. By promising we intend to change our behavior and will bring good things in our lives. Just never doubt yourself! Believe in yourself and know you can do it all!
I called my grandma today and it has been a while now. I haven’t seen her since the time I went to the Philippines back in 2009. I just love how we would always have these conversation that would make me want to cry. Every time I ask her how she’s doing, she would always tell me that she’s doing everything to stay healthy, so she could watch all her grand kids grow up and live with a successful life. She would always tell me to take care of myself and my parents. And one thing that she told me today that got me was, “Be Patient, as long as have patience God will lead you to the right path and will give you guidance. God knows good people will live a successful life, just never forget you have him by your side.” Oh How I miss my grandma so much. She taught me so much, and I wouldn’t forget all the good memories we have had together. I love you Grandma!
So, It’s been a while since I’ve been active with any of my social network and even social life. When I do go on my social network, I tend to just check if I have a message or I would scroll down my timeline to see what’s been up. But, other than that I tend to distant myself away from everyone. I mean, these past few years I’ve been focusing on others, trying to help them out with there problems and maybe, it’s about time for me to just step back and focus on myself. To be honest, I am happy where I am standing now. I don’t need a lot of friends for me to be happy. Even though it’s great to meet new people and have a lot of friends, but what’s the use if they just come and go. I’m just tired of trying to make new friends and they’re just there for temporary. Temporary people will make temporary efforts to stay in your life. I started with few friends and those are the people that I should just pay more attention. Even though my social life is so died right now, it’s okay because I’m happy and that’s what matters the most.
Lunch Date with BestFriends! @marlafernandez and @kawawine. #cheesecakefactory #delamo #delamomall #instaphoto #igdaily #bestfriends
Good Vibes! Yeee Buddie! #coworkers #bombnight #goodvibes #instaphoto #instadaily #instamood #instagood #photoofthenight
Bombass Night! @kminabe @dbeezy92 @candeeeeezy @hi93044 @ohmykm #gablehousebowl #bowling #goodvibes #bombnight #wellspent #instaphoto #instadaily #photoofthenight
This year so far has been good to me. Things had happened unexpectedly. Like, getting a job at Benihana as a host and getting my driver’s licensed. I just like were I’m heading in life, and I thank you God for leading me to the right path. School wise, I am also doing fine. I am still learning how to manage my time and getting my work done. I like all my classes, specially my learn 11 class because I could use it in my daily life and I could relate to all the things we talk about in class. I also learned so much about myself and how I can improve my weaknesses and overcome my fear. My life is literally focus with my school and work. I honestly don’t even have a social life, but it’s okay. I think it’s better to be by myself for now and get away from those things that didn’t work out from the past. It’s not an easy battle, I could tell you that, but I could say, as long as you are motivated and you stay positive, things will go smoothly in your life. You are the only one that knows what you want in life and what makes you happy, right? So never doubt and make yourself as an excuse. Get up! And it’s time for you to take action! Things are possible if you make it happen! Don’t just tell yourself and make promises, JUST DO IT! ( :
March 13, 2013
Hey love! I just wanted to apologize how I haven’t had the time to write to you and I hope you’re doing as amazing as you are. It’s been a couple of months now and there are alot of things that we need to catch up on. As of now, my life is focus with my college life and as well as my job. And yes! I finally got a job at Benihana as a host. Remember, how I’ve been looking/ wanting to get a job? Well look at me now, I’m a hard working man. Aha! These past few months has been good for me. The fact that I’ve been happy to where I’m standing and I’m finally taking an actions to all my goals. I hope everything’s good with you though, I know that sometimes life is hard, but as long as you know what you want and what makes you happy, you can do it all! Anything is possible when you make it happen. I’m hoping that this year, we would finally see each other and be together. Even though I’ve been busy, I always think about us and when could I finally get to hold you. But you know what, as long as you’re doing good and happy, I have no problem waiting for you even how long it will take. Well, I will end it here for now. I miss you! Always take care. <3